Teach Your Children to Self-Protect

Teach your child to recognize danger: who, what and where.

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Who: Somebody they don't know or don't  trust asking them to do something they don't want to do. Strangers are not only the creepy looking men in trench coats. They can be anyone. Many kids are abducted by a family friend or acquaintance.

What: Adults do not ask children for help. That should be a warning sign that something is wrong. Your children should also be aware of anybody who asks them to get in a car or go somewhere with them, or anyone who crosses a boundary, such as touching them or invading their personal space. Teach your child to not give people the benefit of the doubt. Instead, teach your child to gather information and trust his or her instincts.

Where: If someone asks your child to go to a second location, that should set bells off in his or her head. If your child is alone and an adult approaches him or her, that is not a good sign.

The Buddy System: Kids should never be alone, even for a minute. They should always be with a friend or two, because there is strength in numbers.

React: Children must also know that it is OK for them to say no. They shouldn't worry about being polite. If the feel they are in danger or something is not right, they should move in the opposite direction, yell, scream and ask for help. Rehearse this with your children by asking them how they would react in certain situations. Don't tell them how to react. For example, ask them what they would do if they are at bus stop and a car pulls up offering a ride.

Communicate: It's imperative that you establish a line of communication with your kids about anything they don't feel comfortable talking about.

From:http://drphil.com/articles/article/623

5 Steps to Change Your Child's Attitude

Your child may seem to act quite different at times, and quite bossy as well. Controlling that is a great skill, so become the power parent you are and change your child's attitude. My attitude about her determined her behavior. By changing my attitude towards her, her attitude towards me changed as well. 

1.Understand your child.

2.Understand what makes your child act the way they do.

3.Find the root cause of the attitude issues.

4.Let your child know that you are trying to help them, and that you are on their side.

5.Let your child know, straight up, if they're not changing, that you don't appreciate their attitude.

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